FAQ

Sekhem Massage is a sensual and energetic massage  session, but it is held with clear consent, communication, and professional boundaries.

The focus is embodiment, presence, energy, sensitivity, and connection with yourself. It is not about performance or expectation.

Sensitive boundaries are discussed clearly before the session, and you are always free to say no, pause, or change your mind and it can change through the massage. As I have over 10 years experience in the tantric massage field, we can book a full body tantric massage after a clarity call. 

Dearmouring is a body-based technique that supports the softening of protective patterns, tension, and emotional holding in the body.

It may involve touch, breath, awareness, sound, sensation, or emotional release. In my work, dearmouring is approached gently and respectfully, always at the pace of your body.

We begin with an intentional conversation. We explore what is present for you physically, emotionally, and energetically.

We may speak about your intention, boundaries, previous experience with bodywork, health concerns, and what kind of support you are seeking.

Only after this conversation do we begin the session.

There is time to rest, integrate, and slowly return.

After a session, you may feel relaxed, emotional, tired, spacious, open, grounded, or sensitive. I recommend giving yourself quiet time afterward, drinking water, and allowing space for integration. If it is possible, it is great to go walk in nature afterwards.

No. You do not need any previous experience.

You are welcome whether this is your first bodywork session or you have explored somatic healing, tantra, massage, therapy, or energy work before. It is just important you keep an open mind and have curiosity to oneself.

Please share your name, which session you feel drawn to, your intention, any previous bodywork experience, and any health concerns, injuries, trauma sensitivity, or physical conditions I should know about.

No. This work is not psychotherapy, medical treatment, or a replacement for professional mental health care.

It is a somatic bodywork and self-development practice that may support emotional awareness, body connection, stress relief, and personal growth.

Some sessions include massage, but Sekhem Bodywork is more than massage.

Depending on the session, we may work with touch, breath, body awareness, emotional release, fascia release, energy work, sensual embodiment, stillness, or dialogue.

The intention is not only relaxation, but also deeper connection with your body, emotions, and inner wisdom.

Yes. How clothed you choose to be is completely your choice. Your comfort, consent, and boundaries guide the session.

For bodywork that includes oil, I will kindly invite you to undress to your underwear if that feels comfortable for you. This is always your choice, and we will discuss what feels right before the session begins.

No. You do not need to know beforehand.

You are welcome to come with a feeling, an intention, a question, or simply a sense that something in your body wants attention. We can begin with a conversation and choose the direction of the session together.

If you are unsure, we can also have a 15-minute clarity call before booking to feel into what may fit you best — including the type of session, your intention, session length, and budget.

Yes. You can pause, speak, change direction, ask for more space, or stop at any time.

Your body leads the pace. Nothing is forced.

To confirm your session and hold your appointment time, I kindly ask for a 50€ deposit. This deposit is deducted from the total price of your session.

Payment for the deposit can be made by PayPal or bank transfer. Once we have scheduled your appointment, I will send you the payment details.

The rest of the payment can be made in cash on site, or through another payment method we agree on together.

If you need to cancel or reschedule, please let me know at least 24 hours before your appointment.

Cancellations made less than 24 hours before the session are charged at 50% of the session fee.

To work with me, you need to be at least 18 years old.

Before we begin, you may be asked to sign a consent form. This helps create a clear foundation of trust, communication, and mutual understanding before the session starts.

YES. Because this work can be sensitive and may involve emotional release, body awareness, and deep presence, I kindly ask that you do not take alcohol, recreational drugs, or any mind-altering substances for 24 hours before the session.

Please also avoid non-essential painkillers before the session, unless they are medically necessary. Do not stop any prescribed medication without speaking to your doctor. If you are taking medication or painkillers, please let me know before booking so we can make sure the session is appropriate for you.

If you arrive under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or substances, I have the right to cancel the session and keep the deposit.

This work is a self-development and somatic bodywork process. It is not a replacement for psychotherapy, medical treatment, or psychiatric care.

Before booking, please let me know if any of the following apply to you:

You are currently experiencing acute psychological distress or a severe mental health condition.
You are in an active trauma state, psychosis, or crisis.
You have a nervous system-related condition, such as epilepsy or fibromyalgia.
You have a serious psychological or physical illness.
You are pregnant.

This does not always mean you cannot have a session, but it is important that I know beforehand so we can decide together whether this work is appropriate and safe for you at this time.

If you arrive under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or substances, the session cannot take place.

Due to the sensitive nature of the work, I need you to be present, aware, and able to communicate clearly. In this case, I have the right to cancel the session and keep the deposit.